Tips for Adopting a Stray Cat

Feb 2, 2014 by     6 Comments    Posted under: Behavior, Personal Opinion, Tips & Advice

It is easy to welcome a well socialized kitten into your home, but what about an abandoned kitten or a hungry stray cat who adopts you? Kittens (or cats) who have not had good early socialization can be guided along the path to a healthy happy relationship with people. Behavior is shaped by two opposing forces. One is repetition: each time we respond to a certain stimulus in a certain way, we are more likely to respond the same way in the future. The opposite force is extinction: the longer we go without repeating a behavior, the less likely we are to act the same way. For example, the more frequently you walk by a doughnut shop without stopping,the less likely it is that you will stop. These two principles will guide our behavior modification strategy as we integrate a new cat into our family.

It is helpful to view these felines as having low self-esteem and needing a wide personal space. Because of minimal or non-existent past socialization, these felines are always on high alert. When a person or animal enters that cat’s personal space, its defensive neurons prepare to fire. In the opposite situation, if we allow the cat to enter our personal space, the defensive neurons are subdued. Over time, if those neurons do not fire, the behavior they elicit ( e.g. running away, hissing, scratching) will be eliminated. Although, it is counterintuitive, the best way to make a cat feel safe is to ignore it. Do not make direct eye contact. Staring can be seen as a threat. Allow the cat to come to you for attention. When it feels secure, the cat will begin to join your social group, first by sitting at the periphery or choosing to come into the room. Gradually the kitty will get closer to you, perhaps sitting on one end of the sofa while the you sit at the other. One day the cat will sit next to you. Even then , for the first few times resist the urge to reach out and pat him. He may begin to rub his scent on you, thereby making you familiar to him. The same logic should be followed when you are standing. Once comfortable, you may be graced with a happy cat weaving in and out and rubbing up against your legs. Resist the temptation to reach down. ( We’ve all done that with a hunger aroused cat, only to be feel the claws against our skin!)

Monitor the cat’s level of socialization by observing his sleeping pattern. It is not uncommon for a client to note that a newly adopted cat will get up on the bed once the person is asleep, when cat knows he is safe from unwanted attention, and depart as soon as the person wakes up. At first the kitty will sleep at the end of the bed in case he needs to make a fast exit. Gradually he will come closer to sleep near or next to this now less threatening human.

When adopting a cat whose early life was not one of security and comfort, it is best to see things through the cat’s eyes. In the wild, cats are hunters for their food, but also prey for many other species. From that perspective, in your home, you are viewed as a predator and the cat is in alien territory. Ask yourself what would make the house a more welcoming environment? One solution would be provide multiple hiding spaces at different heights for escape during times of sensory overload. A threatened cat will go to a place in which he feels secure to process all the incoming information. Place food dishes in multiple places for the same reason- giving the kitty many options to sneak out and eat. The same logic is true for litter boxes. Use more than one box and place them far apart so he can establish safe routes to them. Creating a “safe room”, e.g. a spare bedroom where no other animals are allowed to enter, for a cat is also an option- with food, water, litter pan, and resting places- that he can call his own

The physical environment is not the only one to modify to help a less confident cat or kitten become well integrated into your family. A cat’s senses are much more acute than ours. Two more questions arise as you welcome this feline into your home are. What does my house sound like? What does my house smell like? Cats can hear higher frequencies even into the ultrasonic range. They can hear sounds 2.5 octaves higher than either people or dogs, have movable ears which allow them to pinpoint location of sounds. Their hearing is approximately 10x as sensitive compared to humans. Imagine what loud music sounds like to a cat! Even the noise of everyday life can be jarring; another reason why cats, are inclined to be nocturnal. The cat’s sense of smell is also markedly different than ours- they have 20 times the olfactory cells that people do. Many things we think smell good, cats find repulsive- citrus is one good example. It is best to keep the air clean. Avoid using scented candles, room air fresheners, potpourri.

The poorly socialized cat has a large hurdle to overcome. Because he responds to human contact the way he learned to survive outdoors, the cat may become labeled as unfriendly, mean, or nasty. It takes a great deal of patience, understanding, and time to convince a cat with this background that he will be loved and is being given a secure, comforting home. The reward however is great. Ask anyone who has welcomed a neglected cat or kitten into their home.

It makes a heart sing to see a previously scared, wide-eyed, ears back kitty ask for head bumps or curl up contentedly purring in one’s lap.

Dr Kathleen Keefe Ternes

Dr. Kathleen Keefe Ternes grew up in western Massachusetts. She received an undergraduate degree from Cornell University in 1974; a BS degree in 1978 and a DVM in 1979 from Michigan State University. Dr. Keefe Ternes returned home to New England in April 1980. In 1984, she achieved one of her professional goals by opening The Feline Hospital in Salem, MA. . Dr. Keefe Ternes, a diplomate of the American Board of Veterinary Practitioners (ABVP), initially certified as a companion animal specialist in 1990. She became certified as a feline specialist in 2000 and recertified in 2010. Dr. Keefe Ternes is a member of AAFP, the AVMA, the MVMA, and her local organization, the Veterinary Association of the North Shore (VANS). Her involvement in organized medicine includes having been a past president of VANS and current member of the board of directors. She is also a case reviewer for the ABVP and recently joined the Feline Welfare Committee of the AAFP.

Dr. Keefe Ternes lives in Salem with her husband and two college age daughters. Her two senior cats Toby and Petunia keep her on her toes medically.

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  • Jeffrey Pettigrew

    We have a feral cat (who we have named Buffy) that we have been feeding for about 3 months. When it got cold, we built him a shelter. When the wind chill got down to -45, we placed a heated bed in his shelter. Through all this, we have resisted the urge to try to pet him, although when I place his food inside his shelter, he is only a few inches away. You have to let them come to you. Even if he never becomes tame enough to pet, or come inside, he will know he can depend on us for food, water, and shelter!

  • jlung

    @jeffreypettigrew:disqus That is an amazingly kind story – thank you for sharing with us!

  • Cyn Clancurrie

    I have a formerly feral (ff) cat who has lived with me eight years now. Even now she needs lots of room and trusts very few people (just me). After several months, I got into the habit of picking her up once a day and giving her plenty of ‘good kitty’ comments and gentle pets to the forehead, to make sure I could take her to the doctor when/if she got sick. I have noticed that she has trained herself now, so when I come in a door, she runs to me and stands quietly for her once a day lifting and petting session. Another helpful hint with this extrememly sensitive and shy cat is that when she comes to me for attention, she gets over stimulated very easily, so I’ve placed plenty of scratching posts around, at least one in each room. She takes advantage of them often (sparing furniture).

    • jlung

      @cynclancurrie:disqus We need more people like you and @jeffreypettigrew:disqus. You have both changed the lives of another creature which is down right amazing! Thank you for sharing – I’m sure lots of people will find your tips useful.

  • artjohn

    I’ve got a cat that was sort of a stray, belonged to neighbors who would neglect him. He came into our yard all the time. They moved and he did not go with them. He’d come to our screened porch and quietly watch our 2 purebred cats laying in the sun. He always came to see us and my wife would feed him leftover cat food from our 2. He was outside in rain, snow, etc and always came to our car when we got home.

    One day he got into a fight with something [dog cat?] and was cut above the face. My wife took him to the doc and he fixed him up. My wife told me now we had to keep him, we could not put him back outside. That was about 8 years ago.

    He has never been back outside and is sitting with me now, sleeps against me and may be the best cat to me we’ve ever had. He sees his doc regularly. I think he knows he has it made.

    He deserves it.

    PS-just found your site via a Twitter post on eating plants.

    • jlung

      That’s a very heart-warming story – thank so much for sharing! We need more people like you and your wife in this world.

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